Whenever more than several women are together for more than half an hour they wind up talking about men. Unlike men, however, women usually start talking about pet peeves and what they dislike about male behavior and habits within a relationship – while men just typically talk only about what they like about women. Once you get several of them started it will ultimately turn to pet peeves and the mistakes that men make in their relationships. Is this natural and normal? Certainly. Is it beneficial? -Perhaps but only if men end up being the recipients of this information. That just happens to be today’s topic. Below are listed the most often mentioned – or Top 5 – issues or pet peeves that women cite when the subject comes up.
1. Insufficient attention to the emotional needs of their partner.
2. Too much time spent out with the guys.
3. Insufficient participation in the maintenance/upkeep of the home.
4. Insufficient participation in the management of finances.
5. Insufficient attention to love, romance and togetherness.
If you are a woman and you agree with these as the primary mistakes that men make in their relationships then you should share these with your man and get a consensus or agreement that he is indeed guilty of one or more of these. They should also be open to hearing from their mate what he believes their primary mistakes – or his list of pet peeves – are or appear to be.
Assuming that you confront your partner regarding one or more of the above listed issues that men are accused of committing habitually, what is to become of that experience. In other words, should you expect your partner to change overnight simply because you believe he is guilty of one or more of the ladies Top 5 No No’s? Probably not, right? So, what is the real purpose of even having this list if it does no one any good or serve to generally improve men’s behavior? Well, let’s just say that awareness has its own reward and maybe things will change.} It’s also a way to get things started and get your ex back.
Well, it certainly gets the word out there and perhaps starts a dialogue between men and women. What we have suggested is a trade of ‘giving’ between men and women. What we mean by that is simply this. If you offer to trade one concession on your list for one of his pet peeves – just as a test case – what is the worst that could happen? If all it ever does is generate a good laugh and nothing more than increased awareness then it is worth it. If you are trying to get ex back or are really hoping to win your ex back this could well be a place to start.
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